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For over 37 years, psychologist and business leader Hayden Fricke has lived closely with mental illness - not just through his work, but within his own family. His younger brother Quentin lived with schizophrenia throughout adulthood. His father, an accomplished barrister, Queen's Counsel, and judge, battled bipolar disorder and alcoholism. His older brother Craig lives with an intellectual disability, anxiety and depression. And his brother-in-law Glenn, a warm and brilliant man, faced severe clinical depression that ultimately ended in suicide.
In Compassion, Hayden courageously opens up about these deeply personal experiences, shedding light on the often-invisible world of mental illness. Through raw and moving storytelling, he offers a rare dual perspective: that of a family member navigating the emotional complexity of love, loss, and hope, and that of a psychologist offering expert insight into the broader psychological, social, and systemic challenges we face.
This is not a book filled with clinical jargon or distant theories. Instead, it is an honest, heartfelt, and accessible exploration of what it means to live beside mental illness-of the grief, confusion, and helplessness it can bring, but also the resilience, connection, and compassion it can inspire.
Hayden's professional lens adds a powerful layer of insight. He explores the stigma that still surrounds mental illness, particularly in leadership and professional environments. He highlights the silence that too often prevents families and communities from seeking help or starting conversations. And he challenges readers-especially leaders, colleagues, and friends-to develop greater empathy and real-world understanding of mental health, far beyond surface-level awareness campaigns.
Compassion invites readers into an intimate and thought-provoking journey. It asks the hard questions:
• How do we talk honestly about mental illness, especially when it affects those closest to us?
• What support systems are truly helpful-and what approaches unintentionally do more harm?
• How can workplaces, leaders, and teams become safer, more compassionate spaces for those living with mental illness?
As a psychologist and the Managing Director of Steople Australia, Hayden has spent decades helping organisations build psychologically safe and high-performing cultures. But in this book, he steps out from behind the professional curtain to reveal the human side of his journey-the one filled with heartbreak, hard-won insight, and enduring hope.
Whether you're someone who lives with mental illness, supports a loved one who does, works in a leadership role, or simply wants to understand this important topic more deeply, Compassion is for you.
It's a book about being brave enough to speak out. Kind enough to listen. And strong enough to challenge the silence.
In Compassion, Hayden courageously opens up about these deeply personal experiences, shedding light on the often-invisible world of mental illness. Through raw and moving storytelling, he offers a rare dual perspective: that of a family member navigating the emotional complexity of love, loss, and hope, and that of a psychologist offering expert insight into the broader psychological, social, and systemic challenges we face.
This is not a book filled with clinical jargon or distant theories. Instead, it is an honest, heartfelt, and accessible exploration of what it means to live beside mental illness-of the grief, confusion, and helplessness it can bring, but also the resilience, connection, and compassion it can inspire.
Hayden's professional lens adds a powerful layer of insight. He explores the stigma that still surrounds mental illness, particularly in leadership and professional environments. He highlights the silence that too often prevents families and communities from seeking help or starting conversations. And he challenges readers-especially leaders, colleagues, and friends-to develop greater empathy and real-world understanding of mental health, far beyond surface-level awareness campaigns.
Compassion invites readers into an intimate and thought-provoking journey. It asks the hard questions:
• How do we talk honestly about mental illness, especially when it affects those closest to us?
• What support systems are truly helpful-and what approaches unintentionally do more harm?
• How can workplaces, leaders, and teams become safer, more compassionate spaces for those living with mental illness?
As a psychologist and the Managing Director of Steople Australia, Hayden has spent decades helping organisations build psychologically safe and high-performing cultures. But in this book, he steps out from behind the professional curtain to reveal the human side of his journey-the one filled with heartbreak, hard-won insight, and enduring hope.
Whether you're someone who lives with mental illness, supports a loved one who does, works in a leadership role, or simply wants to understand this important topic more deeply, Compassion is for you.
It's a book about being brave enough to speak out. Kind enough to listen. And strong enough to challenge the silence.