Still struggling from the effects of an abusive relationship?
Do the following symptoms sound familiar?
-Mood swings
-Sleeplessness
-Extreme weight loss or weight gain
-Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity
-Feeling like you don't know the difference between right and wrong
-Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective)
-Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex
-Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened
-Feelings of helplessness and despair
-A desire to self-isolate
-Feeling desperately misunderstood
-Sudden inexplicable anxiety followed by rapid dips into depression
The list goes on...
You are dealing with a narcissist, and if you haven't figured it out already, they will never, ever change.
You can stay in the relationship and be unhappy, or you can choose to never date a narcissist again. It is not easy, I know. Because I have been there. I was you.
They are smart enough to know what you are looking for at the level of your core values and mold themselves to appear to represent that whilst provoking as much sympathy in you for them as they can.
But beneath the mask of a shy, vulnerable and "good person" something far more sinister lurks.
-A social chameleon who would wear a completely different identity depending on who they were talking to
-A sneaky, underhanded way of operating in the world that ONLY those closest to them ever get a glimpse of
-A person whose actions RARELY match their words!
"They seemed so good-hearted and vulnerable, I just wanted to help..."
"Maybe my ex is right, maybe it really is me... "
"Am I just being paranoid?"
"Nobody understands!"
WHAT YOU NEED NOW:
-Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside.
-Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional sh*tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create.
